Learning Lessons Is Painful
However, on the other side of this, once the healing begins, there can be healthy recognition of new truths and learning experiences from this pain. The trick is to get on the other side fast.
Most of you know that I am not a big fan of Centurion Services Group, Eric Wilensky and Erik Tivin both have treated me almost like a one night stand. They took my money, with no hesitation and delivered crappy equipment, and didn't even say thank you, mostly it was F-you.
I have to admit, the thrill of dealing with them in the beginning seemed exhilarating. But, looking for a one night stand with someone is not how I approach business or my life for that matter, but, Erik Wilensky and/or Eric Tivin have a completely different attitude in my opinion.
They don't seem to mind one night stands and leaving you on the porch doing the walk of shame.
This is an interesting analogy, because the emotions I felt from dealing with these two, is like shame. I feel lonely and depressed and from what WebMd says about being duped, it is a general and consistent emotion that most people feel after being taken advantage of.
This isn't about being stupid and naive that is already established, this is about dealing with the pain of being taken advantage of by someone and learning from it.
There is a book called, "Will get fooled again: Emotionally intelligent people are easily duped by high-stakes deceivers," at http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.2044-8333.2012.02054.x/abstract
This book title says it all. Whether you are smart or dumb, in love or breaking up; the emotional pain of getting duped is still there. The images that linger can cause bad feelings for a lifetime, unless you are capable of dealing with this pain constructively.
My goal isn't to rehash the bad feelings I have towards Centurion Services Group and their entire company. This isn't the employee's fault they are just mirroring what the top of the food chain is doing. When the person at the top is a certain way, then it only makes sense that the trickle down affect will infect the entire company.
Even the way the pictures are placed on their website is hilarious. Today, I am going to get into the now and start to fix the problems rather than dwell on it.
I spoke with my friend James Burns at Endoscopy Support Services and he is going to evaluate the scopes I purchased at Centurion Services Group; I am sending them to him today. He has the ability to fix flexible endoscopes back to manufacture specs and that is awesome; James Burns is awesome.
Also, I have set up a quick form to the right of this posting, that can serve anyone who needs equipment repaired or is looking to purchase equipment. It is an easy way to connect with over 5000 medical equipment buyers and sellers.
The bottom line is that dealing with Centurion Services Group has been painful but what I have learned and the new people I have met is totally encouraging. I am looking forward to putting this in the past and moving into the future with more experience and zeal. I am proud that over 170 new dealers from around the world have emailed me and offered help, assistance and equipment solutions. This has enabled me to get equipment fixed, sold and back on the road to success. Now that I have more experience and resolve to overcoming some of the big problems that life can throw at you, like the inability to purchase and gifts for Christmas and still come out healthier for it on the other side; It is a lesson everyone can learn from; without actually having to go through the pain.
Wishing you the best,
Chad Avakian
Ps Below is the pictures of the top brass at Centurion Services Group and MedMart auction,
"THIS IS AN AS IS, BUY WHERE IS, AUCTION CHAD, DIDN'T YOU READ THE TERMS AND CONDITIONS?"
--Eric Wilensky
| Erik Tivin Chairman and CEO |
Eric Wilensky Vice President of Business Operations | Angela Cummings Vice President of Finance | |||
| Jon Picus Global Sales Director | Julie Ball Vice President of Sales |